{"id":1168,"date":"2023-02-06T21:40:59","date_gmt":"2023-02-06T21:40:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/?p=1168"},"modified":"2023-02-15T00:12:35","modified_gmt":"2023-02-15T00:12:35","slug":"a-violencia-invisivel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/?p=1168","title":{"rendered":"A viol\u00eancia invis\u00edvel"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1168\" class=\"elementor elementor-1168\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b8c1ecf elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b8c1ecf\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c3213ba\" data-id=\"c3213ba\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b1a5e7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6b1a5e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 05-08-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1170\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-2048x1366.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-1000x667.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-230x153.jpg 230w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-350x233.jpg 350w, https:\/\/comportamentalismo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-adrien-olichon-2736135-scaled-480x320.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e9b353a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e9b353a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8051f8b\" data-id=\"8051f8b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d45be0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2d45be0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 05-08-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Qual foi a pior dor que voc\u00ea j\u00e1 sentiu? Se pud\u00e9ssemos escolher, provavelmente, optar\u00edamos pela dor f\u00edsica a outra dor latejante, que pulsa e ningu\u00e9m v\u00ea.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Muitos de n\u00f3s vivemos neste emaranhado de uma viol\u00eancia n\u00e3o t\u00e3o discutida quanto a viol\u00eancia f\u00edsica, entretanto ela tamb\u00e9m fere, causa sofrimento, dor, hematoma e segrega\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p><p>Mas que mal \u00e9 esse afinal?\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c9 a viol\u00eancia invis\u00edvel que existe no nosso modo de pensar e usar o poder que temos nos tratos com os outros.<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o pode estar permeada por viol\u00eancia e n\u00f3s nem percebemos. Sim, porque a viol\u00eancia nos foi ensinada por uma maneira de pensar e uma linguagem, que muitas vezes carregam julgamentos moralizadores, deprecia\u00e7\u00f5es, r\u00f3tulos, compara\u00e7\u00f5es e geram vergonha e culpa.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Isso n\u00e3o quer dizer que somos cru\u00e9is, desumanos, impiedosos e monstruosos, embora possamos ser tudo isso \u00e0s vezes. A viol\u00eancia invis\u00edvel \u00e9 uma express\u00e3o de nossas pr\u00f3prias necessidades e valores, exteriorizada da maneira tr\u00e1gica como aprendemos. Por exemplo, quem nunca ouviu ou at\u00e9 mesmo disse:\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cVoc\u00ea nunca tem tempo para mim\u201d;<\/p><p>\u201cNunca posso fazer o que eu quero\u201d;<\/p><p>\u201cEsse relat\u00f3rio era para ontem, onde voc\u00ea est\u00e1 com a cabe\u00e7a? \u201d;<\/p><p>\u201cMinha m\u00e3e reclama de tudo\u201d;<\/p><p>\u201cDe novo esse assunto\u201d?<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 O fato \u00e9 que muitas vezes condessamos toda a carga de necessidades n\u00e3o atendidas em frases do dia-a-dia. E se aprend\u00eassemos a express\u00e1-las de uma maneira que n\u00e3o causasse culpa, m\u00e1goa e sofrimento nas pessoas? E se por meio do autoconhecimento entend\u00eassemos t\u00e3o profundamente do que precisamos e do que o outro precisa como se neste momento estiv\u00e9ssemos emocionalmente nus?<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Talvez sem essa capa que nos cobre possamos de fato entender um ao outro de forma emp\u00e1tica e por meio da compaix\u00e3o consigamos aquilo que queremos sem viol\u00eancia.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Podemos desaprender a viol\u00eancia, porque ela n\u00e3o tem nos ajudado a ser felizes, na verdade ela nos atrapalha. Shakespeare descreve essa realidade atrav\u00e9s de Otelo quando diz:\u00a0 Percebo a f\u00faria em suas palavras, mas n\u00e3o entendo as palavras. \u201d Apesar desses percal\u00e7os n\u00e3o somos casos perdidos, podemos ser ouvidos, ouvir e ser compreendidos e ter uma vida essencialmente realizada.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1b9bcef elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1b9bcef\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bf18ea8\" data-id=\"bf18ea8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d0fefde elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"d0fefde\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! 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